Is this an act of a true gentleman?

It was normal for a couple to have some misunderstandings in their relationship sometime. Even though, every time their is an argument the one who had a fault should be the one to say sorry. For me pride and ego makes the quarrel between the 2 person longer. If each of you had its own pride and don't want to look down and say "hey can we talk?" then nobody will happen to both you. Problems and misunderstandings will just grow bigger each day.

In a relationship men should always be the one to initiate if there is some misunderstandings in their relationship. That was the true gentleman should always do. Even if you partner say "I don't want to see you anymore", "I don't need you!", "Go to Hell!", and all those nasty things it is up for the guy to understand that these words spoken by their partner is somewhat unintentional it is just their way to release all the hurtings that she had been suffering at the moment. Continue to court her. Just always stay by her side no matter what may happen if you really love her.

They say time can heal the wounds. But I may say "why wait for the time" if both of you are willing to talk about what's going on in the relationship. Initiate. Give time to talk what are the shortcomings of each other and you will see that upon seeing each other in person after a day of quarreling love will always prevail.

For guys, don't say any nasty things about your partner. Stay cool. Don't act as woman. Remember that you are a man not a gay. When a woman starts talking just listen and be focus on what she is saying. Don't try to argue since she cannot hear you. They are deaf in times like this. Be brave. Hug her (not on public for it may be scandalous). Just make them feel that they are really your princess and you are ther light and shining armor. Say sorry for what you have done. Say sorry for what she have done. Give up your pride and will surely win her heart back.

Don't be tired in saying sorry if you really want the relationship to go on. Problems are always there but be positive in dealing with it since it will mold the relationship and build a strong foundation for the family that you and your partner dreaming of someday.

Is this actuation is an act of a true gentleman? your reaction please.

A Poem For You

A POEM FOR YOU

You teach me how to fly
But I catch you when we fall
And now that your gone
My life is in miserable

I remember those days
That we both have shared
You and me against the world
Seems no one can broke

But life is so unfair for us
Letting each one of us to let go
I know I have hurt you
And I know it's unforgivable

When you go through life
Always remember this
I have loved you and always will
No one can replaced you in my heart

At night when you sleep
Don't forget to wear your jacket
And when daytime comes
Umbrella should be in your hands

You're still my angel
and my Princess
A loving wife
For the rest of my life


~~joener~~

Beware... Beware.. Beware...

Why 3 times? I just want to remind you this because I myself had been a victim of a pickpocket yesterday. What they get from me are 2 cellular phones from my backpack. Stupid! We're going to church then and we passed along Jaro Plaza going to Jaro Cathedral. And out of my senses I didn't notice that my bag had already been opened and the "sinner" had already got what they've wanted.

In fact we are already in the area of Jaro Cathedral before I noticed that I had been robbed. It was past 5 then when Sheila asked me to hand over her celphone to check if she had some messages. yes. It wasn't my cellphone but the fact that it was on my position when the cellphone had been robbed it really made me feel guilty for not looking into it.

Yesterday, around 4:20 we left her house to attend a mass at Jaro Cathedral. But, before that we went first to Marymart mall to buy some blank DVD's. And then we proceed to Jaro. At jaro Plaza I thought there is a passage along the walkway inside Jaro Plaza going to church. Along the way from left to right there are various sellers of different variety of flowers. Roses of different colors, Gumamela, cactus of different variety, orchids and many more.

At last we've gone into the end to the walkway but it was blocked by an entrance gate going to a carnaval inside the plaza. So, we then went back where and then just walked along the main road of Jaro going to church. Upon arriving, the 4pm mass has not yet finished so we decided to sit on the shed besides St Elizabeth of Hungary Kinder school.

There Sheila asked me to hand over her celphone. When i checked my backpack???? Shit! @#$@$#! It was totally opened. and the cellphones are gone. Shocked!! I think heaven and earth met and I have been caught up in between. I don't know what to do. I really felt guilty for what had happened.

This day upon writing these my aunt also told me that yesterday at Jaro Cathedral around 5pm also there is a lady crying that she had been robbed amounting to Php 20,ooo. Yes that was right Php 20,000.

So, for some of you going to that place today to celebrate the Feast of Our Lady of Candles I just want to remind you to be careful of your belongings coz I myself don't want you to repeat what had happened to us yesterday.

BEWARE OF PICKPOCKETS!!! BEWARE OF SNATCHERS!!! BEWARE!!! BEWARE!!! BEWARE!!!